Plugs always look white, as the car does run lean (stoich) during day to day driving... idle, cruise, light load/acceleration.
The only way the spark plug colour would help would be to kill the engine (ignition off, car in neutral) at the absolute top of a full throttle run. Nowadays with the clever ECUs and multitude of sensors, this simply isn't needed
VCDS will tell you the LPFP pressure and duty cycle, so you can determine whether it is on its way out or not. Along with logging pressure, you can log lambda requested vs actual to see if the request is being met and whether the car is running leaner than the map is requesting