Yes, that's the anti lift kit.
As for mapping, if you're doing all the mods first and then mapping, the map won't cost you any more or less regardless of which 'stage' it is. You can do the whole works and go straight to a stage 2, 2+, 3 map, or beyond, depending on mods.
The 'stage' thing is more a marketing thing. Like a benchmark. Certain tuners require specific mods to work with their specific stages of map, but with R-Tech it's fully bespoke so you can have your own mix and match of mods of your choice and it'll be mapped to the best of their potential.
That said, R-Tech do stick the 'stage' label on their maps, roughly according to mods. So their Stage 1 is standard hardware (or pre cat delete), Stage 1+ is standard hardware (or pre cat delete) with an uprated fuel pump, Stage 2 is a full exhaust/decat downpipe, intake, uprated intercooler, Stage 2+ the same as 2 but also with an uprated fuel pump.
It's worth noting that these are guidelines rather than requirements with R-Tech. I know of someone on here that just had an uprated panel filter and full powervalve, and the map he got was labelled Stage 2.
I'm rambling a bit here, but in the simplest terms, a full exhaust qualifies you for Stage 2, and an uprated fuel pump is the '+'.
As for the intakes, a few people on here have taken them off and gone back to the standard panel filter as they found them a bit too hissy and wooshy, like you say!