You two still run standard console bushes?
Get a TTE420
All this forging stuff is a nice idea, but it's not an infallible suit of armor. It just stops the engine from blowing quite as easily as it would with cast pistons and rods. There is a lot of scaremongery on the TFSI tuning group from members who push things too far by running standard KO4s at 2 bar, mapped in hard cut limiters, anti-lag flames and bangs........and they wonder why they get smoke from their exhausts and break their ring lands.
You don't need to run 400lbft. For one thing the manual box is only rated to 320lbft (by VW themselves) and secondly, sometimes less is more. More traction! 350lbft is mechanically safer but also gives less wheelspin than 400lbft. I've seen people blowing rear diffs on S3s on, surprise surprise, the TFSI group running that kind of torque. So I suppose what I'm rattling on about is, yeah, get a hybrid but don't run it flat out. Keep some headroom there.