I think some well thought out tuning mods might ease your pain
My wife drives a bog standard Mk5 GTI. For four years I was driving a Clio 182 while she was driving the golf.
The Clio was similar to the Honda in that it is super light, and has a high revving VTEC style N/A motor. Unlike the Honda though it was made of cheese and had serious reliability issues.
Every time I would get in my wife's car over those years I would marvel at how refined and lovely it was. Eventually, so much so, that I traded the Clio against a MK5 GTI of my own.
Like you though, after a while I was missing the manic nature of the Clio. So I started modifiying my MK 5.....
To date I have done;
Stage 1 map
Full custom 3in TBE
Ramair oversize induction
Engine and Gearbox mounts
Dogbone and Dogbone insert
All 4 Discs and pads and a thorough brake fluid flush
I had reason to drive my wife's car for a few days recently. Mate, the difference is night and day
Even with just the basic mods noted above my car is SOOOO much more involving and rewarding to drive than the basic model.
I appreciate yours is an Edition 30 (so it's already much better than a standard GTI out of the box) and that you have lots of modifying experience. But I still think if you invest in a few choice mods the car will come alive and you'll love it again just like the Honda