It will take ages to get the oil to 90+ degrees if you baby it. In fact, this time of year, you'll be lucky to see 96-98 at all during a commute.
I always drive my cars hard from cold and never had a problem. Not pedal to the metal hard, but you know, common sense, give it enough load/revs to warm it up faster. This is why OEMs specify a particular oil. They appreciate 99% of drivers don't give a toss about warming engines up and just nail it immediately
Only where it is a major concern, you normally get temperature related power/rev restrictions, such as the older BMW M3 and M5 engines.....and the only reason for that was because BMW specified a 10W60, which is like treacle when cold. The 0W40 or 5W30 we use in our GTIs is very thin at low temperatures, so there is no need to hold the engine back until it's warm.
I've monitored the oil temps in my ED30 at various states of tune, summer and winter, and honestly, there is nothing to worry about. Just drive it and enjoy it.