Just to clear something up, if i do it properly and get coillies, imo the only option, would i experience better ride? love the GTI ride and dont want to get any annoying rattles as i had in some of my erlier cars!
....Unfortunately the answer to your question is somewhat subjective - What's a 'better ride' for some is a 'worse ride' for others.
Coilovers will give you a harder ride (everything will be stiffer and the rebound etc faster) but, if setup properly, not a harsh ride. You will get more physical feedback from the road but for people like me that's 'better'.
It's inevitable that a harder suspension will work up rattles and squeaks and possibly if that's all you are hearing it will probably irritate you. Some of us have aftermarket engine mounts which gloriously (to us) deliver much more sounds into the cabin. This means that we don't actually hear the squeaks and rattles over everything else we hear once we are on the move.
It's all down to the individual, some people would hate my car's ride, others absolutely love it.
The softer the suspension the softer the ride but you don't get that 'flat and planted' handling characteristic.