Just wash the filter with fairy liquid and hot water and let it dry. Run it like that until you get the proper oil. Foam is a good dirt trap in itself. The oil is just an extra belt and braces measure and not essential in the short term. You can actually buy dry foam filters that don't need oiling
As above, oil for foam filters is very different to the cotton gauze stuff. Cotton absorbs oil but foam doesn't. The 'oil' for foam filters is actually more of a tacky glue than oil.
MAFs are completely intolerant of dirt and oil. It wrecks them basically. No amount of cleaning recovers them, but at 102K old, it's well past it anyway. They only last 4-5 years with aftermarket filters. Chinese ones are utter, utter, utter, to the power of 50 billion uselessness. The MAF is the Don. The big boss, primary sensor. He absolutely needs to be OEM, or Hitachi aftermarket. So long as it's made in the UK and HUCO/Hitachi branded.....it's OEM. £140ish from the dealer, £110ish aftermarket.