Personally, I think you are expecting to much, in comparison to your modded GTI. Remember, your modded GTI was much nippier then even a stock ED30. You've got used to the power in your modded car, and by falling back to stock its bound to be a bit of a shocker.
You sure you want to hit the slippery slope again though?? I thought you wanted to remain sensible and keep it stock due to the kids etc......lol
Its true what they say then, - once you've had a taste of applying mods, you cant live without!! lol
How do you think I feel - going from an ED30 to a damn TDI!!!
I do hate the travel associated with my job sometimes! Then again, once the paycheck arrives I cant complain