Quite frankly, I wouldn't go too nuts over the options list imho. It basically depends on what you want for the car.
Personally, mine was relatively poverty-spec (although my wishlist was quite long originally!)
Mine has -
17" - actually prefer the ride, although Monza II look nicer.
Lux pack 2
Midline computer - had an Audi S4 Avant prior and tbh, never really used it! Nice if available, but certainly not a deal-breaker.
Crappy RCD300 with 10 speakers - have ripped this out and installed an F900bt. Don't like the RNS510. Speakers have been upgraded and a sub installed in the wheel arch.
No Xenons - my eyesight is sh1t anyway. Super lights aint gonna make any difference!! LOL!!
Armrest - I loved mine in the Audi, so was happy to see this addition.
Cloth interior - saw a lot of leather interiors that looked very tired on young cars.
DSG - kinda like marmite (love it or loathe it). Me? Not overly impressed tbh.
No winterpack, nor mfsw (don't need it as I have my own stereo and iphone/bluetooth!)
However, mine's a nice base for some modding (see my car in the members section).
AND it was cheap with LOWWWWW miles
So see what you can live with (and without) - go from there!
Dan