After a really long meditation I've decided to mod my car in the following order:
1. -30mm H&R lowering springs for the looks and firmer ride (IMO a fairly cheap way to make your car look better)
2. Colour coding the bumbers and skirts (They did not look good in my eye so this was also a pretty easy and cheap way to improve looks compared to i.e. buying new aftermarket bumbers and skirts and paint em)
3. Remap, REVO or BRS (Just got my GTI so I think I'll enjoy the power it has in stock a little longer so I dont have to start drooling for stage 2+ right away

4. RNS-510, touch screen nav/dvd player, 2nd hand (Only 4th simply because I alrdy have a pretty good nav system and dont even have much use for it tbh)
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That's my list so far =) Hope this was atleast in some way helpful

-Dan