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Offline NB07

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major bummer
« on: August 12, 2010, 07:51:54 am »
hi dudes and dudettes, sorry ive not been about for a while having a bit of a hard time at home, my fiance told me yesterday that shes been sleeping with one of my best chums for a while. nice ! its been going on behind my back for quite some time but im too stupid to even realise. barstewards has been ringing me up for games of squash and beers a lot lately as well  :stupid:

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Re: major bummer
« Reply #1 on: August 12, 2010, 07:57:32 am »
Yikes!. that must be very painful Nick.  :sad1:

Its time for the game of squash, but use a cricket bat.  :fighting: :fighting: :fighting:
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Re: major bummer
« Reply #2 on: August 12, 2010, 08:01:55 am »
That's a bit sh!t mate.

One good thing that has come out of it though is you now know he isn't one of your best chums.

My advice would be to pack her bags and show her the door. As hard as it may be, once the trust is gone you never get it back trust me.

Make sure you get the engagement ring back, sell it and go and treat yourself to a new mod for the car  :drinking: :happy2:

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Re: major bummer
« Reply #3 on: August 12, 2010, 08:10:53 am »
Sorry to hear about this Nick.

I agree with Carl and if the opportunity arises give the 2-faced fecker a few digs. :fighting:
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Re: major bummer
« Reply #4 on: August 12, 2010, 08:22:02 am »
man feel for you, some GTI therapy needed to ease the pain.
Im not going to provide any advice as its a very personal circumstance to you and Im sure you still have feelings for your fiancee.
Just take some time to consider what matters to you most and where you want to be in the near/medium/long term.
Just give us a shout if you need a few guys round for a 'few beers/squash doubles'  :wink:
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Re: major bummer
« Reply #5 on: August 12, 2010, 08:54:08 am »
thanks everyone! you know who your real mates are, the people that help yyou spend money on your car!  :laugh:

nah im thinking i need to save for a holiday i fancy going snowboarding havent been for 6 years because of her  :fighting:

anyone for a forum trip to the alps?!  :grin:

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Re: major bummer
« Reply #6 on: August 12, 2010, 08:59:37 am »
So sorry to hear this mate. Hope you bounce back nick!
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Re: major bummer
« Reply #7 on: August 12, 2010, 09:05:05 am »
wow sorry 2 hear this bud..... hope all works out ok for ya

any1 fnacy filling this tw@t in  :evilgrin:  :evilgrin:

count me in on an alps trip always wanted 2go there  :party:  :party:
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Re: major bummer
« Reply #8 on: August 12, 2010, 09:07:15 am »
 :surprised: Gutted Nick! show her where the door is!

road trip to the alps sounds good! shame i have no monies!  :sad1:
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Re: major bummer
« Reply #9 on: August 12, 2010, 09:10:47 am »
Thats a little bit more than a bummer mate, thats a total Feck up, what a cow.  Definately do the snow boarding trip and find yourself a little snow bunny out there to keep you warm!
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Re: major bummer
« Reply #10 on: August 12, 2010, 09:40:51 am »
Sorry to hear this Nick, at least you found out now and not when you had tied the knot! Just remember fella, what goes around comes around!  :happy2: :wink:
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Re: major bummer
« Reply #11 on: August 12, 2010, 09:52:27 am »
Sorry to hear that mate ,show her the front door!
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Re: major bummer
« Reply #12 on: August 12, 2010, 10:28:02 am »
Sorry to hear this dude, had something similar with me before as well. Onwards and upwards mate!
Boarding trip sounds cool too, not used my board now for a couple of years either !!
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Re: major bummer
« Reply #13 on: August 12, 2010, 12:27:20 pm »
Mate, gutting.

I think what's worse is said mate has been hanging out with you more! Was he feeling guilty or trying to keep suspicions at bay?!?! I don't think I could ever do that to anyone, much less look them in the eye and be friendly.

Get rid of both of them. Treat yourself. If you wanna go snowboarding, go for it. Spend £££ and thoroughly enjoy yorself!
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Re: major bummer
« Reply #14 on: August 12, 2010, 01:22:45 pm »
nick really sorry to hear that fella, hope to see you at a meet soon matey   :fighting:
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