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Re: major bummer
« Reply #15 on: August 12, 2010, 01:38:36 pm »
 :mad: What a TW&T!!!

I sorta know how you feel mate. Me and the Mrs split after 14yrs together. Things were going wrong for a while with us, but when she told me she wanted to break up, well I was devastated  :sad1:

I am however over it now, although, I have been taken to the cleaners. I was messed up mate  :ashamed: She got the new A3 S-line, The house, and most of the stuff in the house. I had some cash in a trust fund, and also a share of my late mum house, so at the time I thought I was doing the right thing.

The best advice I can give you is, don't give anything away, and make sure you keep your house. Just give her and the ex-mate a wide birth.

Good luck Matey. You will get through it.

« Last Edit: August 12, 2010, 01:51:11 pm by monte »

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Re: major bummer
« Reply #16 on: August 12, 2010, 01:42:59 pm »
Jesus christ!!!. Mate youve had enough of late of bad luck, this is sickening to read, especially a "so called" mate.

As said, move her on and enjoy your freedom  :happy2:.

Sorry to read this has happened mate :sad1:

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Re: major bummer
« Reply #17 on: August 12, 2010, 01:49:17 pm »
$hit Nick that sucks big time!! Really sorry to hear about this mate but the good folks of this forum have already dispensed some sound advice!  :happy2:

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Re: major bummer
« Reply #18 on: August 12, 2010, 02:06:44 pm »
Sorry to hear bout that mate! Sucks big time. Even worse when its a mate! It happened to me with an Ex a few years back and I ended up buying a motorbike. Turns out to be one of the best things that happened!

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Re: major bummer
« Reply #19 on: August 12, 2010, 02:20:25 pm »
thanks every one you lot rulez!  :happy2:

i suppose as robins mum would say "as one door closes another one opens"  :laugh:

its quiet a small community where i live and it wont take long for people to realise and hopefully they will be shunned from society! ive decided to move away though as i cant face it so im off to the nice bit of slough in a few weeks  :smiley:
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Re: major bummer
« Reply #20 on: August 12, 2010, 03:19:15 pm »
after my best mate found out about his misses playing about, he opened up a face book account on behalf of her and posted every explict picture he had of her! then invited everyone he knew and she knew to be friends.

it got closed down about 24 hours after it was created but enough people saw it!!  :grin: :grin:


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Re: major bummer
« Reply #21 on: August 12, 2010, 03:24:53 pm »
sorry to hear bout this Nick,like as mentioned go boarding clearer your head and sort it out when you get back..the only thing to watch out for is her cleaning the house out while your out so do it first :signLOL:

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Re: major bummer
« Reply #22 on: August 12, 2010, 03:42:40 pm »
Sorry to hear about this mate, but as others have said onwards and upwards  :happy2:

You'll be surprised at how many fine single 20somethin women are around  :drool:

Get yourself down to London for a night out  :drinking:
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Re: major bummer
« Reply #23 on: August 12, 2010, 03:48:49 pm »
Thats the worse thing that can happen hope you are ok fella.
As for your so called pal set him up mate and go to town on him open right up
I would turn raul maot if it happened to me

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Re: major bummer
« Reply #24 on: August 12, 2010, 04:21:50 pm »
What a sh*t mate. Does he not know the fecking rules?


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Re: major bummer
« Reply #25 on: August 12, 2010, 10:27:56 pm »
Sorry to hear your news.  Although the circumstances were different, I've recently become single again after 7 years.  You know where we all are if you want to offload anyway :happy2:

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Re: major bummer
« Reply #26 on: August 12, 2010, 11:25:11 pm »
Sorry to hear that bud, just split with my misses too so I'm feeling your pain. Just bought the new Ed30 so thats what I'm using to keep me occupied!!

Chin up!

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Re: major bummer
« Reply #27 on: August 13, 2010, 06:59:05 am »
Damn,when the mrs plays around thats real bad,but with your best mate.. f**k

You have my sympathy and best wishes dude.

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Re: major bummer
« Reply #28 on: August 13, 2010, 12:07:57 pm »
Dont know why so many men do things like this to their mates  :stupid:

Anyway f*ck him onwards and upwards.

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Re: major bummer
« Reply #29 on: August 13, 2010, 02:18:04 pm »