They shouldn't be rubbing really mate. What are the specs of the wheels/tyres? Those Falkens do look a bit chunky. Try another brand next time. I was told that there is so much variation in tyre shape between the Brands, even though they may be the same size/spec.
Have you done the Screw-delete mod? I highly recommend doing this. My front tyres on my new 19's were 235's and they would rub under hard compression when going fast. I did the screw mod, and they didn't rub again.
Either that or you have your coilies way too low. (but I don't really know about coilovers)
....oh and once again, the wheel colour/style really suit the Steel Grey.
There are some people that have done there wheels Steel Grey to match their car and they look just great.
From your previous pics the your wheels look a pretty good match to me....but with an extra something.
Def need to see some new pics now. Lowering was all it needed.