Don't top it right up, as long as it is between the max and min it's fine.
I can't really agree with that. OK, your method may be fine for trundling up and down straightish roads, but if you are inclined in giving it the beans in the twisties, then endeavoring to keep it topped up to the max is strongly advised.
I don't follow your logic TT. The Max is a maximum not a target, likewise the Min is the minimum - Anywhere in between is fair game.
Strange logic! I certainly can not agree that it is 'fair game'.
The engine was specifically designed to run with 4.6 litres in the sump - which is the max on the dipstick. At the minimum level on the dipstick, there will only be 3.6 litres in the sump - that is a loss of more than 20%!!! Would you agree that loosing 20% of your engines coolant was acceptable? Or how about super unleaded, but with a 20% loss of octane rating. Maybe you like running your tyres with 20% less pressure? Or maybe how about buying a 200bhp GTI, but with 20% of the power missing.
I'm not questioning the fact that an engine has a dipstick with minimum and maximum levels (usually for lazy sh!ts who CBA to open the bonnet every weekend) - but the minimum (nor anywhere near it) should NEVER be an acceptable way to manage your oil level.
You could ask any professional mech/tech, any race team tech, any engine builder - and they should all state that the oil level needs keeping as close to the max as possible. I personally get annoyed with myself if I ever need to add more than 250ml to top up.