I've had a look on the net & I'm not sure what cable I want

Can someone point me in the right direction. I think I want a cable that connects my iPod to the cd changer port of the mfd2. I would like it to charge the iPod & leave the iPod in the glove box.
I've found two options:
1. The official VW cable (1K0051444), which seems to be well over £100 from the dealer.
2. Xcarlink, (£80) this seems the better option as it is still possible to use the iPod to control track selection etc.
All replies welcomed & appreciated.