Wow your car is heavy !
my car on the scales with a 3/4 full tank weighed in at 1444kg without me in (But my gym kit in the boot). The shocking thing was the difference between rears and fronts. The GTI is one nose heavy baby, no wonder dialling out understeer is hard work. I weigh 80kg so with me in clothed it is circa 1535 kg
My car is manual, is yours DSG ?
I will experiment with tyre pressures, the car seems pretty sensitive to a 1lb adjustment, I dropped 0.5psi more off the back and I didnt like it. I have bought an accurate guage (1%) so will measure and let you know what I settle on. I have tried 6,7 7,8 and 8,9 F,R on the road and it was very fidgety and crashy, plus I notice the back at over 4 dropping as you go over a bump, you aware the back is still coming back from bump when the car lands. Im sure no problem on a smooth track but not great on the road.
Try 3F, 4R for the road, I don't think you'll lose much comfort but it will tighten things up a bit.