If the plug isn't working or intermittent the fuel in that cylinder isn't getting burnt so I imagine it would over time cause a Lambda as its technically running rich.You would probably smell it as well.If your mapped as well try setting the gap at, I think, 0.64mm.Instead of 0.80mm.
yes mate it will cause an eml if it reaches the threshold of the counts of missfires to trigger it , last week my cel came on due to my plugs.sorry to hear about your family matehope everything turns out ok for you all