Great thread
The new S4 is the best suggestion yet for the OP's circumstances, q car looks, exceptional performance with the obligatory map and cheap as chips!
The RS4 has aged terribly IMO, it just doesn't excite me anymore. Where as the M3 does, I went to my local BM garage the other day and parked outside was a spanking M3 with the competition pack and a LOT of carbon! I nearly wet myself on the spot!
I've driven an M3 with DCT and it was AWESOME! Such an occasion! I dont imagine the RS4 to be to dissimilar to drive than mine, whilst serving me well it doesn't give me the thrill that a high powered RWD car does! It's just a point and go sort of drive, I never get the feeling that it's gonna put me in a wall if I push on too hard! Where as the M3 could bite me
very easily, if I ran out of talent. I know that may sound daft but I like to scare myself every now and again, it ain't happened to me yet in a quattro car where as the M3 scared me every time I went round a corner pressing on!
Anyways M3 FTMW