Got my new R32/S3 brakes from DaveB last week and the calipers are absolutely spotless and everything else is brand new

but...... went to get them fitted today and they don't fit underneath my wheels which i didnt realise were such a low offset - around 35ish

needed about a 12mm or bigger spacer to clear the caliper but then pokes to much and will foul the arch
I know the obvious option is to either sell the brakes on or get new wheels but have i got any other choices available to make them work? would rolling the arches make enough of a difference? would a 12mm or bigger spacer be too much?
Any help appreciated as i'm totally gutted and have taken a big hit to my wallet this weekend already

Thanks
Dave