Yeah doesn't sound great, if he can't handle being told what to do then he's in the wrong game i'm afraid
Let's be honest nobody likes being told what to do, but it's a rank and file system and it has to be that way
If you can get him to focus on the fact that knowledge is key. Learn, learn, learn as much and as fast as he can and he'll soon move through the ranks and earn the respect of his peers. Graft is the key to move up in this business