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Do I mind my own business?
« on: February 15, 2012, 06:14:45 pm »
Got abit of a dilema and what people's opinion on it. Basically a young couple moved in next door early last year and wed late in the year, time so not long. I know them both to speak to over the fence if you like but wouldn't say proper friends. She is a teacher so is off this week as its half term. He works reasonably late as he travels. Well both me and the girlfriend have heard her 'at it' everyday this week. My missus saw someone go in yesterday and we both saw someone leave this eve.

Do I say something to him about what we know? Obviosly I would be opening a whole can of worms but she is less than discreet about it. Rather vocal and took him wherever tonight once they'd done. I'm in 2 minds as I have been on the end of the cheating stick myself so not sure.

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Re: Do I mind my own business?
« Reply #1 on: February 15, 2012, 06:18:28 pm »
Id tell the poor fella, only because i'd want to be told if that was my missus  :happy2:

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Re: Do I mind my own business?
« Reply #2 on: February 15, 2012, 06:22:12 pm »
I would be careful in your approach. Would be fekkin embarassing him to find out directly from you. I'd probably say something like "it's very noisy during the day, could you please keep it quiet?". If he still didn't get the hint, I'd suggest they keep quieter during sex. Let him think that you think it's him and let him work it out.

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Re: Do I mind my own business?
« Reply #3 on: February 15, 2012, 06:23:28 pm »
IMO yes mind your own business, lets face it its not going to make you popular with either of them is it.

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Re: Do I mind my own business?
« Reply #4 on: February 15, 2012, 06:30:23 pm »
She might be an energetic cleaner. Or she might have the latest Fistmaster 5000  :grin:

In all seriousness then i would stay well out. For a start the other half may well be fully aware (some people are like that) and won't appreciate you implying that she is cheating. Even if she is cheating it won't do you any favours if you tell him. Your not good friends so i would just stay well out of it.

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Re: Do I mind my own business?
« Reply #5 on: February 15, 2012, 06:50:01 pm »
I think this is Jeremy Kyle territory  :laugh:
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Re: Do I mind my own business?
« Reply #6 on: February 15, 2012, 07:06:35 pm »
I'd go with the fistmaster 5000 theory.  Works best for the visual perception.  :evilgrin:

You could ask him if he spends a lot on batteries as his wife seems to get off a lot when he's not there.

Is she fit?  Do you see an opening for yourself???

Final theory - perhaps he's in on it and either can't provide everything she needs or gets off on the thought of someone else kicking his Mrs back doors in on a daily basis.

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Re: Do I mind my own business?
« Reply #7 on: February 15, 2012, 07:16:34 pm »
stick a message in the local rag :signLOL:

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Re: Do I mind my own business?
« Reply #8 on: February 15, 2012, 07:22:59 pm »
you never know, it might be their 'lifestyle'

unless there is fear of imminent danger to persons or property.. stay out ;)

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Re: Do I mind my own business?
« Reply #9 on: February 15, 2012, 07:29:49 pm »
I would tell him. I would want to be told and its gonna carry on till he finds out i guess.

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Re: Do I mind my own business?
« Reply #10 on: February 15, 2012, 07:38:04 pm »
I'm in the leave well alone camp.  You won't get any thanks for your efforts and as the messenger you might even get shot.  If she's that indiscreet its only a matter of time till he finds out, if he's not already aware.

Otherwise stealthwolf's approach is probably the best way of doing it.
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Re: Do I mind my own business?
« Reply #11 on: February 15, 2012, 07:48:43 pm »
I would leave well alone........it will get ugly!
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Re: Do I mind my own business?
« Reply #12 on: February 15, 2012, 07:53:26 pm »
Do not get involved. Most murders occur surrounding domestic situations that got out of hand.
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Re: Do I mind my own business?
« Reply #13 on: February 15, 2012, 07:55:58 pm »
Are you sure she's a school teacher and not a Escort  :laugh:

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Re: Do I mind my own business?
« Reply #14 on: February 15, 2012, 08:00:47 pm »
Would leave it well alone!


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