Take job 2 for now - family is more important than work as ultimately they are what make for the happiest times.
a job similar to 1 could be round the corner or a few months down the line ever in your local area or a commutable area. My friends dad worked away from home and he didn't see him much, as a result they don't have the best relationship in the world and now argue more than anything.
Good luck and hope it goes well!
