Ah right i think I am getting with it now... forgive me as i am getting on a bit
Looking at the differences It looks like I have the pre07 buttons, Just been out to the car and checked the colour the centre is probably slightly darker than the buttons but I can live with that as it is pretty close.
looking at the picture below I assume the paddles plug into the little white socket next to the ribbon plug... then the other end of the ribbon goes into the black box and that plugs into the car/ can-bus ... correct ?