I like the 'if girls can do it', girls also give birth and go back for more, its not a fair comparison.
My worst was a tribal band, when they first came out right bodge, it felt like someone had put a lighter under my arm.
Get some chuppa chuppas in case you pass out as you may not know it but the needle thing can get some.
My wife had a lovely one on her foot and she said it was worse than childbirth! But the tattooist said one of the worse places.
Good luck, its fun, addictive and is a life reminder of your youth.