The trouble with detailing is that once the wash and decontamination is out the way it all comes down to personal preference, alot more than it does with the earlier process'. Some say its either wax or a sealant with some saying sealants lasting longer but waxes giving better results, some use both. Some just use polish, some use glaze, some people use both. Its all personal preference.
What I do is;
Wash, 2 bucket Method, I used to use
AG Bodywoak Shampoo Conditioner but last time I needed I some I bought
Meguiars Gold Class Shampoo which I prefer to AG's
Clay Bar with
Meguiars Cly KitPolish with
AG SRP or
Meguiars 3 stage systemWax, if I don't use meguiars 3 stage system I either use stage 3 of the set after the SRP or
AG Aqua WaxI prefer the Meguires wax tbh as it gives a better finish but if I'm in a rush I use the aqua wax as its quicker (and smells good). Most people wouldn't probably rate much of what I use or how I do it but I don't really get the time or space to do it properly. Anything I've linked to above is just so you know the products I'm on about.
Heres a couple more guides and FAQ's etc that might help or confuse you more
http://www.cleanyourcar.co.uk/generalImg/guide.gifhttp://www.polishedbliss.co.uk/acatalog/car-care-advice.html