Obviously no one lets their wife/girlfriend drive their cars...
I let my fiancee drive mine. I think she looks after it better than me! She seems to think I would actually kill her if she broke it.
I only ever turn it to "Stock" to "recalibrate my right foot" then when I am happy it is painfully slow (Not that it was much of a slouch) it goes back on!
I don't even both to turn it to "stock" for a service any more, because I asked about a couple of intermittent faults once at VW and they said; "It's probably because it has been remapped". So it would appear they can tell the difference between "VW Stock" & "Revo Stock".