If people are getting to frustrated with the page loading speed then perhaps they are relying to much on this forum for there entertainment and communication needs.
....I've been rumbled - I suppose that my post count gives me away. Sad aren't I. But, yes, I only feel frustrated by it if I've just completed a carefully worded (and of course beautifully wordsmith'd) reply post to then find I can't post it. So my workaround is to copy it into TextEdit and post it later. Or to do as you suggest and go and do something else.
I think that it's natural for folks on the internet to expect all web sites to load instantly and efficiently and we are in a way spoilt.
Either way it is curable and just needs the appropriate person to step into SteveP's shoes and sort out a server.