Thanks for the replies ....
I have the older Superchips DSG map on the car by choice - I do have the newer map on my computer and have had it on the car about 3 times but with the standard exhaust I prefer the surge you get from 4K to the redline with the older map.
The updated / newer map has so much more in the mid range you don't really get the same feeling .... if that makes sense - it comes in quite aggressively at 3K and evens off to the redline whereas the 'older' map feels like it builds all the way (because there is less power lower down) but with much more power than standard from about 4K.
With a full TBE I will get a Stage 2 version from Superchips and try it - though I feel it might make the older DSG map even more amusing !
I haven't ruled out other exhausts ... particularly the Jetex resonated ... but I want something that gives more power but no more noise. I don't think the APR system will fit what I want sound wise though I don't doubt it is quality . I have heard a Milltek resonated TBE and understand the Jetex is just as quiet.
As for that 'slippery slope' ...
it is something I have been on with many cars so know how bad it is