Thanks for all the replies - I posted it and forgot about the thread... so many questions.
Greenouse has first pick of the plate if I ever sell the car
The wheels look much better in the flesh - I was not sure about them before I put them on, but as soon as they went on I though they looked amazing
I was going to keep a low profile and stick the VW centres back on - I thought the red BBS caps looked too Japanese - but then thought, I'm always too conservative -let's put them on - they're a bit in your face but I like them