My girlfriend drives my car all week covering about 12 miles a day, then shopping with her mum at the weekend etc and getting in my car after a week of not driving it I notice the difference, its more reserved, changes gear quickly at low revs etc. After a bit of right foot action it adapts to my driving style becoming more responsive and always wanting to "go", then I park it up, hand over the keys and the cycle starts all over again.
The real test of ecu adapting to your driving style comes after doing a track day, or trip to the ring. The car turns into a monster on the streets and is almost impossible to drive at 30mph, accelerate smoothly without ripping your head off or reverse without looking like a learner driver struggling with clutch control.
Clever stuff!