Shouldn't be a question about a stalk, i have the stalk you have with buttons for the menu, along with a afterfitted mk 6 MFSW and i can use both, as i have coded via VCDS the use of both.
Still sounds like the cable to me 

cheers Jake
Well i took it out, checked the wires, re-loaded the polar box, but still not showing up on the screen. I noticed when i hold the OK button in, i hear like a clicking noise coming from the polar box, then my RNS displays that "diagnostics connected"...
How did you code them in Jake? I have the RS4 steering wheel, but have been unable to get using buttons, always wanted to see what the "S" button would do

Test the cable with an multimeter.
Rich, I'm not up to multi-metering, so was unable to test that way... But i'm sure i could get someone too show me or test it for me...
I am now also able to scan the car with vcds, as it was not allowing me to do that before.
Saturday,15,February,2014,14:41:52:05378
VCDS -- Windows Based VAG/VAS Emulator
VCDS Version: Release 12.12.0 (x64)
Data version: 20130910
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Chassis Type: 1K (7N0)
Scan: 01 03 08 09 15 16 17 19 25 37 42 44 46 52 56 75
01-Engine -- Status: Malfunction 0010
03-ABS Brakes -- Status: OK 0000
04-Steering Angle -- Status: OK 0000
08-Auto HVAC -- Status: OK 0000
09-Cent. Elect. -- Status: OK 0000
15-Airbags -- Status: OK 0000
16-Steering wheel -- Status: OK 0000
17-Instruments -- Status: OK 0000
19-CAN Gateway -- Status: OK 0000
25-Immobilizer -- Status: OK 0000
37-Navigation -- Status: Malfunction 0010
42-Door Elect, Driver -- Status: OK 0000
44-Steering Assist -- Status: OK 0000
46-Central Conv. -- Status: OK 0000
52-Door Elect, Pass. -- Status: OK 0000
56-Radio -- Status: Malfunction 0010
75-Telematics -- Status: OK 0000
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Address 01: Engine Labels: 06F-907-115-AXX.lbl
Part No SW: 1K0 907 115 T HW: 8P0 907 115 B
Component: 2.0l R4/4V TFSI 0010
Revision: 5BH16--- Serial number: VWX7Z0G63NC8GC
Coding: 0403000318070060
Shop #: WSC 00191 264 15243
VCID: 37797D98465886A6659-8062
1 Fault Found:
005696 - Internal Control Module
P1640 - 008 - EEPROM Error
Freeze Frame:
Fault Status: 01101000
Fault Priority: 2
Fault Frequency: 1
Reset counter: 255
Mileage: 149678 km
Time Indication: 0
Freeze Frame:
RPM: 0 /min
Load: 0.0 %
Speed: 0.0 km/h
Temperature: 10.0°C
Temperature: 9.0°C
Absolute Pres.: 900.0 mbar
Voltage: 11.430 V
Readiness: 0110 0100
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Address 03: ABS Brakes Labels: 1K0-907-379-MK60-F.lbl
Part No SW: 1K0 907 379 AA HW: 1K0 907 379 AA
Component: ESP FRONT MK60 0102
Revision: 00H13001
Coding: 0004738
Shop #: WSC 01279 785 00200
VCID: 71ED838068BC18966BD-8024
No fault code found.
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Address 08: Auto HVAC Labels: 1K0-907-044.lbl
Part No: 1K0 907 044 BE
Component: ClimatronicPQ35 090 0808
Shop #: WSC 00000 000 00000
VCID: 6BD191E84A90F246511-803E
No fault code found.
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Address 09: Cent. Elect. Labels: 3C0-937-049-23-H.lbl
Part No SW: 3C0 937 049 E HW: 3C0 937 049 E
Component: Bordnetz-SG H37 1002
Revision: 00H37000 Serial number: 00000003741322
Coding: E58F8F2700041800001400001400000000087F075C
Shop #: WSC 00000 785 00200
VCID: 2B5151E88A103246111-807E
Subsystem 1 - Part No: 1K2 955 119 C Labels: 1KX-955-119.CLB
Component: Wischer VW350 013 0402
Coding: 00065493
Shop #: WSC 00000
Subsystem 2 - Part No: 1K0 955 559 T Labels: 1K0-955-559-AF.CLB
Component: RegenLichtSens 011 1110
Coding: 00207646
Shop #: WSC 00000
No fault code found.
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Address 15: Airbags Labels: 1K0-909-605.lbl
Part No SW: 1K0 909 605 R HW: 1K0 909 605 R
Component: 38 AIRBAG VW8 018 2200
Revision: 02018000 Serial number: 0038MD046H1V
Coding: 0013112
Shop #: WSC 01269 785 00200
VCID: 3B7161A87A70A2C6811-806E
Subsystem 1 - Serial number: 6332MSME0D453C5DQ
Subsystem 2 - Serial number: 6342MSME0D535D7BT
Subsystem 3 - Serial number: 6352QSME02512F67F
Subsystem 4 - Serial number: 6362QSME033B0A0BG
No fault code found.
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Address 16: Steering wheel Labels: 1K0-953-549-MY8.lbl
Part No SW: 1K0 953 549 AF HW: 1K0 953 549 AF
Component: Lenksäulenmodul 634 0070
Coding: 0000012
Shop #: WSC 00898 000 00000
VCID: 76E7B09C01D23FAEBEF-8023
No fault code found.
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Address 17: Instruments Labels: 1K0-920-xxx-17.lbl
Part No: 1K6 920 972 E
Component: KOMBIINSTRUMENT VDD 4312
Coding: 0005403
Shop #: WSC 26086 444 52293
VCID: 34634A94572E6DBE40B-8061
No fault code found.
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Address 19: CAN Gateway (J533) Labels: 7N0-907-530-V2.clb
Part No SW: 7N0 907 530 R HW: 7N0 907 530 H
Component: J533 Gateway H42 1632
Revision: H42 Serial number: 310512F2001517
Coding: 350001
Shop #: WSC 12345 123 12345
VCID: 3F8915B8AE68BEE6AD9-806A
1 Fault Found:
01331 - Door Control Module; Driver Side (J386)
004 - No Signal/Communication - Intermittent
Freeze Frame:
Fault Status: 00100100
Fault Priority: 2
Fault Frequency: 1
Reset counter: 72
Mileage: 149679 km
Time Indication: 0
Date: 2000.00.00
Time: 14:40:00
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Address 37: Navigation (J0506) Labels: 1T0-035-680.clb
Part No SW: 1T0 035 680 D HW: 1T0 035 680 B
Component: RNS-MID H03 3810
Revision: AB001001 Serial number: VWZ6Z7H6184085
Coding: 080004000400001800
Shop #: WSC 00020 790 12345
VCID: 2F6945F87E084E663D9-807A
1 Fault Found:
00856 - Radio Antenna
011 - Open Circuit
Freeze Frame:
Fault Status: 01101011
Fault Priority: 5
Fault Frequency: 2
Reset counter: 32
Mileage: 149672 km
Time Indication: 0
Date: 2000.00.00
Time: 13:04:46
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Address 42: Door Elect, Driver Labels: 1K0-959-701-MIN2.lbl
Part No: 1K0 959 701 K
Component: Tuer-SG 024 2390
Coding: 0000564
Shop #: WSC 01279 785 00200
VCID: 3667709C41527FAE7EF-8063
No fault code found.
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Address 44: Steering Assist Labels: 1Kx-909-14x-44.clb
Part No: 1K2 909 144 L
Component: EPS_ZFLS Kl.074 H07 1806
Shop #: WSC 00903 210 57712
VCID: 356577905C5474B6775-8060
No fault code found.
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Address 46: Central Conv. Labels: 1K0-959-433-MAX.clb
Part No SW: 1K0 959 433 BT HW: 1K0 959 433 BT
Component: KSG PQ35 G2 020 0202
Revision: 00020000 Serial number: 00000000000000
Coding: 98900A085103487F000285057008DA06009840
Shop #: WSC 06441 785 00200
VCID: 83015948C2009A06091-80D6
Subsystem 1 - Component: Sounder n.mounted
Subsystem 2 - Component: NGS n.mounted
Subsystem 3 - Component: IRUE n.mounted
1 Fault Found:
01331 - Door Control Module; Driver Side (J386)
004 - No Signal/Communication - Intermittent
Freeze Frame:
Fault Status: 00100100
Fault Priority: 4
Fault Frequency: 1
Reset counter: 72
Mileage: 149679 km
Time Indication: 0
Date: 2000.00.00
Time: 14:40:00
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Address 52: Door Elect, Pass. Labels: 1K0-959-702-MIN2.lbl
Part No: 1K0 959 702 K
Component: Tuer-SG 024 2390
Coding: 0000564
Shop #: WSC 01279 785 00200
VCID: 37797D98465886A6659-8062
No fault code found.
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Address 56: Radio (J0506) Labels: 1T0-035-680.clb
Part No SW: 1T0 035 680 D HW: 1T0 035 680 B
Component: RNS-MID H03 3810
Revision: AB001001 Serial number: VWZ6Z7H6184085
Coding: 080004000400001800
Shop #: WSC 00020 790 12345
VCID: 2F6945F87E084E663D9-807A
1 Fault Found:
00856 - Radio Antenna
011 - Open Circuit
Freeze Frame:
Fault Status: 01101011
Fault Priority: 5
Fault Frequency: 2
Reset counter: 32
Mileage: 149672 km
Time Indication: 0
Date: 2000.00.00
Time: 13:04:46
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Address 75: Telematics
Cannot be reached
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