Garrardrj has been on this forum a while. Although I don't know him, his post didn't seem patronising to me. After all, you've posted on an internet forum - you've invited opinions.
FWIW, I think he might be right. If the plugs look old / the car's running rough or whatever a car's fault may be, the chances are that blame may lie elsewhere than at the dealer's door.
I hope you don't think I'm being patronising, too. I like balance is all.