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Offline MAT ED30

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Re: Moral dilemma!
« Reply #15 on: March 04, 2014, 12:09:52 am »
Tell the truth she might get a bigger rebate in the future and not tell you and when you do find out you will be a bit miffed  :signLOL: your in a relationship built on trust surely  :confused:
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Re: Moral dilemma!
« Reply #16 on: March 04, 2014, 04:59:47 am »
Would you like your Wife to have this "kind" of secrets as well ? not telling troth about things like that is not right at all.

Asking this type of question put the question mark on how truthful you are to your life partner... which is a bit shame really.

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Re: Moral dilemma!
« Reply #17 on: March 04, 2014, 06:17:36 am »
Okayyyyy, was just a bit of a fun question really. Luckily I'm not in a position with my wife where trust is an issue!!!  Thanks for all the serious advice anyway..... :signLOL:  :fighting:
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Re: Moral dilemma!
« Reply #18 on: March 04, 2014, 09:06:30 am »
I would spend it on something you want. It's your money your earnings.

Too many people are under the thumb these days lol
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Re: Moral dilemma!
« Reply #19 on: March 04, 2014, 01:27:24 pm »
Tell your wife, buy the bits and also some earplugs for when the wining starts up! (that was my route for my remap!)  :happy2:
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Re: Re: Re: Moral dilemma!
« Reply #20 on: March 04, 2014, 04:02:47 pm »
Quote from: xjay1337 on March 04, 2014, 09:06:30 am
I would spend it on something you want. It's your money your earnings.

Too many people are under the thumb these days lol

By any chance are you a single ? Or simply do not live with other half ?

Is not about to be under a thumb but about trust in relationship.
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Re: Moral dilemma!
« Reply #21 on: March 04, 2014, 04:19:58 pm »
Where's the trust if your missus kicks up a fuss if you spend your hard earnt on car parts! Lol.
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Re: Re: Re: Moral dilemma!
« Reply #22 on: March 04, 2014, 04:49:58 pm »
Quote from: xjay1337 on March 04, 2014, 04:19:58 pm
Where's the trust if your missus kicks up a fuss if you spend your hard earnt on car parts! Lol.

This is where you need to work things out but not telling truth is definately not good option for future...

I do not have a problem with my GF and car parts as long as we discuss all options.
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Re: Moral dilemma!
« Reply #23 on: March 04, 2014, 05:03:54 pm »
Car designers talk about trim, door handles and lights as "jewellery".  So, if you want Xenons, then just tell her you're buying jewellery.

What could possibly go wrong?
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Re: Re: Re: Moral dilemma!
« Reply #24 on: March 04, 2014, 05:26:54 pm »
Quote from: Alzak on March 04, 2014, 04:49:58 pm
Quote from: xjay1337 on March 04, 2014, 04:19:58 pm
Where's the trust if your missus kicks up a fuss if you spend your hard earnt on car parts! Lol.

This is where you need to work things out but not telling truth is definately not good option for future...

I do not have a problem with my GF and car parts as long as we discuss all options.

where's the deception?
i would tell her that i got a tax rebate and i'm buying a big turbo.   :jumping:
unless we had mutual debts or had otherwise decided we needed money for something else.

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