Sometimes with peoples lack of moral Fibre (Often disguised as greed) you cannot avoid experiencing this behaviour from others, and have to accept it. As in this case. I have seen the same all over the world, but often this is driven by the need to survive, and preserve ones family in the face of adversity.
Someone either masqueraded as Jay, or a better offer was made.....................
Still very very much not right, but has happened, the information was on a public forum. Not sure what can be done about it.
Sh*t really.