I think asking for cash is cheeky.... if you cant afford a honeymoon then you cant afford one tough sh*t!!
We got married back in october and have yet to go on a honeymoon for one reason or another.... one being busy and the other not been able to afford one. So we will go on honeymoon when we can afford it.
I would never give cash at a wedding... I would always get a gift.
Thats fair enough, do see your point. Weddings i went to 8-10 years ago, there was a wedding list, but now a days seem different. Friends of ours recently just bought a house same year as wedding, so paid for a new bathroom with the gifts from the wedding. They gave a list of different bath parts for people to contribute towards. They didnt like my loo roll that i wrapped up for them