At the end of the day, people's driving style and personal preferences always differ, so while one person likes a 500bhp+ FWD car, another won't. Personally, I'm happy keeping my GTI down at about 260bhp, more than enough for daily duties and driving around London.
I do think there's a strong association with power levels and type of roads around where a person lives. Since moving to London, I've stopped wanting big power in favour of a comfy interior and better ride.
So getting back to the original question, a decent re-map from a respectable tuner is the best advice if you want one, but perhaps consider spending the few hundred quid on other things you may enjoy as well (lowering springs, better stereo ect.). Have a look through the Mods section (link along the top red bar) and see what takes your fancy.