Looking to spend about £3.5/4K for mrs to poodle around town in, but I could give it the beans now & again

Thinking its best to avoid soft top and 4WD, less to go wrong??
Is there a facelift year in that price range?
What does s-line bring?
What year does steering wheel audio controls come in?
Is 1.8T 225bhp the one to go for?
What options should I look out for?