Thanks for the reply's.
Car went into VW today in Derby and being that the Rubicon Fiscon Bluetooth kit was not a genuine VW part they basically said there was nothing they could do and that the system probably never worked in the first place.
Anyway whilst waiting outside for a lift I got speaking to a lad who I knew from school and he called over one of the "Technicians"
I explained everything and he said he would have a look whilst sorting another warranty issue.
Unplugged the bluetooth unit and ran the car. Turned off.
Re plugged the bluetooth unit and started the car and the menu has reappeared. Works perfectly again
The bluetooth module/unit was behind the stereo!
Hope this helps anyone in the future.