Did another realignment again and this time the gears seem to go in with less stiffness but just as quick as before.. 3rd gear is straight forward and 4th straight back whereas before 3rd was slightly to the right.. clicks into all gears perfectly no rubbing or grinding.. tried reverse again and there is less stiffness now and reverse still works first time.. maybe all it needed after all was an alignment 🤔 the 2nd gear grind/resistance is still there when cold driving and goes away after but a oil change might help that :) will keep driving the car and see where i am at on tuesday.
Thanks guys and happy new year!