Ah OK. For some reason, my memory is telling me the in/out key behaviour can be changed with VCDS coding, but I could be wrong.
Sounds like some laptop action is required in any case!
Annoying indeed, but the xenons obviously need to point in the right direction for legal/visibility reasons
My passenger door doesn't unlock, the bonnet switch has gone, etc....so I just unplugged them
Not wasting getting on for 300 quid on non essential (to me) parts