After reading hours trough the forum topics looking for some answers to my problems I've decided I should make my own post. Last summer got myself a Mk5 Gti with 180.000 Km (110.000 Miles) as I was expecting it came with some problems, took care of them nothing to be scared about. Back then I didn't drive the car in manual mode for some reason so I can't be sure that my issues with the dsg trans were there from the beginning. My problem is that the moment I go in manual mode and change gears at about 3k rpm I get some judder like the whole engine is moving. I also get a pretty big clunk when my car is downshifting from 3 to 2 gear but I can blame that on my possibly original dmf (he's a bit of a loud boy). The car is also dropping in rpm when breaking hard, it goes down to like 500 rpm and then back up, never stalls tho. When I'm putting in gear it also likes to make a clunk and shake the car a little bit. Went to the mechanic he told me the dmf is fine for now, changed one transmission mount and told me that every other engine/trans mounts are okay, that's it. I've been driving like this for the past 3-4 months saving up for dmf + clutches.
Things that I've done so far:
Timing belt
Cam chain
Water pump
Spark plugs
Coil pack
Pcv valve
Diverter valve
Dsg oil change at 182.000 Km
Every filter got changed
Vcds reset (One thing to mention, gearbox takes like 30 minutes drive to get to 50-60 degrees which I find strange because the gearbox is using the engine coolant to transfer heat, asked the mechanic about it and he said it's fine)
Main Thermostat
Dsg Thermostat
Things that may be the cause after reading trough the forum:
Cracked air filter housing
Maybe spark plugs?
Dmf + clutches
Mechatronic (never had problems with changing gears, it only clunks)
I'm really confused and I have no idea.