"We're talking about how you treat other people face to face, not what prison sentences should be handed out following a proven crime "
Above is what RR said......note the word "Proven"...hence my mention of the word "proving" after it and your question "who mentioned proving"
There is your answer.
It all depends on how you read peoples postings and hence you question " Bad experience or summat mate "
Look at my evil grins after my posts and get the jist
Have a look through the "what do you do" under my post